José Mª Babot, a resident of Majadahonda, has shared his thoughts on what it means to reach and surpass ninety years of age. For him, longevity is a stage of life that, while bringing certain physical limitations, also reveals a series of social attitudes towards the elderly that are, at times, disheartening.
The author describes how, despite age, daily life continues, albeit with an internal "sign" warning about certain restrictions. However, he points out that those most concerned about these limitations are often family members, especially women, who impose prohibitions on habits such as alcohol or tobacco consumption, or the need for company when going out.
The worst of the worst for us is that we are not wanted anywhere. We are in the way.
Babot laments the lack of consideration he perceives in various areas. He mentions the difficulty of accessing medical societies or the discomfort of people standing up out of respect on public transport, which, paradoxically, he finds annoying. He also criticizes the lack of respect in public establishments, where young waiters address him and his companions with familiarity, without the courtesy expected towards an older person.
Despite these difficulties, the author acknowledges that the accumulation of years carries significant weight and persistent responsibilities. He concludes his reflection with a critique of Majadahonda's municipal management, pointing out problems in the maintenance of signage and urban furniture, such as hedges and flowerbeds. He states that, as long as he has the strength, he will continue to report these deficiencies.
